Open Arms Recovery Center · Hanover, PA
Recovery is Possible!!
You do not have to do this alone — we will welcome you with open arms.
For family and friends
You can care deeply without carrying this alone.
When someone you love is struggling with substance use or behavioral health, it is normal to feel worried, frustrated, hopeful, and unsure what to do next. You do not have to solve everything today. Start with a caring conversation and one practical next step.
Choose a calm moment
Look for a private time when you are both as safe and steady as possible. Lead with concern, not a list of everything that has gone wrong.
Listen before fixing
Ask open questions and allow space for an honest answer. You can listen without agreeing with every choice.
Offer one next step
Help them make a call, look at options, or gather information. A small, specific offer is often easier to accept than a large plan.
Keep support steady
Follow up, notice progress, and remember that change can take time. Support is more sustainable when it includes healthy limits.
Words that can help
A conversation does not need to be perfect.
Try language that keeps the door open and centers the person’s dignity.
“I care about you, and I have noticed things seem difficult lately. How are you feeling?”
“You do not have to decide everything today. Would you be open to looking at one option together?”
“I want to support you, and I also need to be honest about what I can and cannot do.”
Support with boundaries
Being loving does not mean saying yes to everything.
Clear boundaries protect relationships and help you stay present. You can refuse to provide money, rides, or a place to stay when doing so would put you or someone else at risk. Explain what you can offer instead, and follow through consistently.
Read more recovery guidanceWhen safety is at risk
If someone may hurt themselves or another person, has overdosed, cannot be awakened, or needs immediate medical attention, call 911. For a mental health or substance-use crisis, call or text 988. For local referrals and basic-needs support, call 211.